I read an article about the most popular sex positions and the mindset related to the men who use them. It was interesting and I’d like to give you my take on it.
The article broke them down provided a mentality behind them and a good way to “switch things up”.
Here we go!
The most well known position in the book. It was probably the first move you broke out the first time you got a girls pants off. It’s simple, intimate and it is a positions that everybody has seen a gazillion times in the movies. You just can’t do it wrong when you do it missionary.
The docs opinion: It’s a romantic position, but it’s not very adventurous. You are locking eyes in this position, but you are not giving her the most sexual pleasure while doing so. You have more to offer than just your gaze.
Switch a roo: If you always get your happy ending in the same old primitive position every single time you have sex chances are you’re not taking chances. Let your lady take control next time (nothing kinky) just let her get on top. It will spice it up.
DOGGY STYLE: (This is my personal favorite)
It’s one of the more preferred among the guys I know and probably among all men. All here is how they got a girl from behind the other night or how they really want to get a girl doggy style soon.
The Docs Opinion: She says men enjoy doggy most because it taps into some “primal animalistic” instinct. Her take on the mental side of it is that men who prefer doggy also don’t prefer a intimate relationship.
The Switch aroo: Instead of taking her from behind, bent over every time try spooning for a change. It’s more intimate and it still has some of that doggy style feel.
LADY ON TOP:
The Move: It’s a great position because it’s more of a group of positions (or a bracket) She can ride you a billion ways. BUT! There is one thing to point out about this beautiful position and that is the fact that men who so thoroughly enjoy the man ontop are most likely men who are not confident in their own ability to please a woman.
The Switch Up: Every man on Earth and probably even some extra terrestrials enjoy watching Earthly titties and aliens boobs alike bouncing around form that bottom position. It’s understandable. But you have to show her that you know how to take control and pleasure her. Flip her around and take her to your own style of pound town.
The Move: This move has been associated with men who have a passionate and eager to please sexual personality. Given that when you just cuddle in the spooning position, it’s very intimate. The doctor says the guys who use this aren’t wimps. Take note fellas.
Switch Hitter: This is a very sexy, stimulating and intimate position. While you’re in this position, reach around her hips and stimulate her clitoris. She’ll be grateful and you’ll get more out of sex too. Maybe even go back to the classics and use missionary and get a bit more intimate.
The Move: Pressed against the front door, hoisted onto the kitchen counter, or in the shower, you can have standing sex anywhere but the bed. That’s why guys who like this position best are adventurous, and often turned on by the idea of being naughty. The Standing Man is a “mischievous lover who gets a thrill out of getting caught, and wants to have as much fun as possible with little regard of the consequences,” says Cadell.
Switch Things Up: Novelty is part of what keeps your sex life hot, so don’t let yours simmer down by going to the same standing position time after time. Vary up the locations you choose, or switch to doggy from time to time—you can have your partner standing and bending over a table—to keep things interesting.
Intimacy doesn’t come naturally to some men – I might even say most men. So more males tend to avoid to cuddles and kisses and go for the deeply erotic and penetrating positions. If you’ve been in a relationship for many years now intimacy shouldn’t be your problem. You just need a change in routine.